respect yourself โค๏ธ

The importance of respecting yourself is MAJOR … If you don’t respect yourself, no one else is going to!

You can respect yourself by doing respectful things for yourself and to other people by your actions and in your reactions to certain things and situations.

Even in the midst of conflict and you feel at the end of your rope, never quenchย  the feelings of respect inside your soul because, it will show outwardly and life struggles will pounce all over you.

Show it whether you feel it or not.ย  It’s very important as to how you are viewed by others.ย Not that I care what people think, I do, however, want to be seen that I hold great respect for myself.

Respect yourself in ALL situations, not just “when you do good”! It’s in the dark times, when you feel broken and used that showing respect to yourself is important. Treat yourself well.

There’s a difference in wanting to be seen in that way and just caring what others think.

Inwardly having respect shows outwardly and people will notice and feel it from the depths of your character. It will shine through from your very soul! Isn’t this how you would like to be seen by the world? Isn’t this the way you want to feel inside? Let go and allow the real YOU to immerge and manifest outwardly into the person you see and feel inside.

Respect yourself through situations that aren’t very respectful. We all do things we shouldn’t, good people make bad choices every day.ย  People may hate on you because of this.ย  Don’t let them bring you down, never let them you sweat. The types have no respect for themselves, so they are unable to show respect for others.  By disrespecting you, it makes them feel better about themselves.

Acceptance inside is key ๐Ÿ˜„ because we all do things that aren’t worthy of respect, in the world eyes. Well we have to forgive ourselves and be gentle to ourselves, yet firm, in handling how we deal with this process!ย  It’s important for your characterโœŒ๏ธ

Also, if you don’t respect yourself, no one else will.

The only thing I can tell you is to always hold your head high no matter what you’re feeling with in your personal life.

Show the world only what they need to see.ย Guard your heart as well because people will hurt you deep down in everyday life if you don’t.

This saves you from vicious attacks from haters around you. Remember hold your head high ~ always!

If other people come at you disrespectfully, you cannot allow that.

You should not tolerate disrespect from anyone, in any way! Attack back in the right manner showing them they have no right to disrespect you.“No permission given” ~ you can do this calmly and with class but at the same time letting them see that you mean business.

๐Ÿ’•Hint: if you have to,ย โ€œfake it ’till you make itโ€,ย (meaning act like you do until you sincerelyย DO respectย yourself), do so! Your stepping out in faith and God will honor that!

Also, ALWAYS be true to yourself first.ย  Never lie to yourself and be able to trust yourself completely. Have your own back, carry yourself accordingly …

Tolerating disrespect in any relationship, will have the haters (sadly, sometimes these ones are closest to our heartโ€ฆ) thinking they can just treat you any way they want. Show them you know your worth.

๐Ÿ˜‹ So never accept that type of treatment! It’s a matter of principle and self pride.

What are your RAW thoughts on this particular subject?๐Ÿ˜Œ leave your โค๏ธ comments with your thoughts on this topic at the bottom of my blog page.



2 thoughts on “respect yourself โค๏ธ

  1. I love this you talk about things that we all go through an not everyone knows how to deal with! Thank you so much Melodie hope u write a book an publish someday there are lots of people who need guidance help an needs to find there way an I am one of them God bless ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’ƒlight and love


    1. Rhiannon, you have been a blessing and thank you for your sweet words! I love you GirL ๐Ÿ’• you have all the knowledge you need, now have the confidence to trust that gut instinct. I’m glad we friends and thanks for following me on here! Share anything here you like with your friends!
      I’m always here for you if you need me, just a message away. Your awesome and I’m really proud of the obstacles you’ve already accomplished. Your a beautiful young woman and you are very smart too, you just haven’t realized it yet! ๐Ÿ’•


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