Where does that strength come from?πŸ’ͺ


Strength is something you are born with but it takes challenging situations for it to be mastered enough that you can pull just enough out of you to make it just a bit further down the road your traveling, when you don’t think you can go any further.

It seems the more you go through in life, the more strength you aquire through challenges faced from those adversities.

Have you just ever taken a moment to yourself to say, “how did I ever make it through that”? It’s because you don’t feel strong after those rough journeys that you conquered, but you know you had to have found the strength somewhere just to have pulled through.

I’m amazed at the resilience I’ve had when facing some of the darkest times in my life. Of course, you don’t notice that when your in the middle of going through them, but only afterwards, is it crystal clear that you had barely made it through. How did you do that? The only answer I could come up with is, “I just did”. You did it because you had no other option, you had to find the strength and your soul find it, unbeknownst to you.

I’ve been in the bathroom, looking in the mirror with tears running down my face, begging myself to stop crying when I was hurting so much I could barely stand it. That is pain, horrible, searing pain that was almost uncontrollable. But somehow, after several minutes, I was able to stop crying and gather myself together the best way I could. That took strength, a LOT of strength, that had to come from a place so deep inside, to push through all that pain.

Next time, be aware of your feelings and the challenging situation your facing. Look back and notice the strength you’ve exhibited throughout that situation, several different times. It takes a lot for an individual to display that type of strength.

We don’t give ourselves enough credit for being a hero in our own lives. It takes a real hero to handle what we have had to handle. Otherwise, we would remain broken and miserable in our daily lives, never getting past the challenges that life is going to throw at us.

Hold onto that deep down faith that’s inside your very bones. No matter what God won’t let you give up, even when you feel like you want to.

So love yourself for protecting yourself and for ultimately saving yourself. You are a very strong person. Embrace that about yourself today. Be your own hero and let God be the Leader in your life.

πŸ’ͺ Leave your comments about your own journey and how you were your own hero!

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  1. Woah, I can relate to this in my own life and it reminds me of everything I went through in my past. I had to pick myself up and get through all of the trials God placed in my life, even though I didn’t understand what He was doing at the time and why. God slowly revealed them to me after I went through it and I have a blog post coming up next Thursday that talks about it. I want you to know that you’re not alone and you have a purpose in this world, Melodie. This is such an inspiring blog post!βœ¨πŸ’—

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    1. Thank you for your feedback. Writing is my passion so wen someone tells me that they can relate, or they can “feel” what I’m writing… It thrills me because it’s not work for me. Hugs and God bless!

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      1. You’re welcome and writing is my passion too! God bless you too, Melodie.βœ¨πŸ’—

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        1. You can tell!! Your writing shows that it is your passion.
          Thank you!!!

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          1. Aw, thank you that comment means so much to me!

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          2. It’s well deserved baby girl and you are welcome. I call it like I see it!!
            Thank you too, for your encouraging words!
            Also thank you for following me!

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          3. Thank you for following me as well!☺️

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          4. Your more than welcome!!
            It’s cool we can support one another!! I can’t wait to read your next post!

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          5. I love having a great support system! I can’t wait for you to read it either.βœ¨πŸ’—

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  2. This is so deep, I really felt it reading this … that strength comes hard after . My favorite quote is from Bob Marley ” you never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have.” Thank you for writing this πŸ’– sometimes we just need the words of others who have gone thru it too really know we are not alone.

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    1. I really appreciate your feedback and your kind words. I hope to help people thru my own experiences, that will have made it worthwhile to have gone thru them. Thank you for following me also and I love following your blog btw!
      😊😊😊😊😊

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