Time creeps by now, slower than slow … I miss your face so much – I just want you to know … that my mind is on you constantly and because of that the bond we have – has done nothing but continue to grow …
We were heavily drawn to each other from that very first night … so much inspiration from you that I couldn’t help but write … thankful that we aren’t like other couples since we don’t just sit and argue and fight …
I became addicted to you just hanging out and around … whenever you were there, my frown would be turned upside down … a soulmate connect for sure was what we’d found …
My arms ache to hold you tight while pulling you close … your presence means to me – the utmost … my heart is yours, never will I say to you adios …
My mind finds a way to sneak away on its own … rustling silently through the depths of where my thoughts of you would roam … precious recollections of us as one – not alone … never again will we be left again on our own …
Those around us are incredibly jealous it seems … since we just don’t argue nor do we tend to yell and scream … we always pick one another up while helping each other tackle their dream …
Being your partner is such a joy to me … how refreshing it is not to break down – tempted and begging to flee … ONLY your sOuL holds my heart’s key …
There’s a sense of peace between us that we’ve grown to adore … not concerned that the other may think like the ones we’ve had before … we are excited inside to take this new journey and together we will search and explore …
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I stay up at night thinking of
… yOu …
the BEAUTY of yOur sOuL radiates into
… me …
causing me to feeL
… yOu …
the amazement of yOu creates in
… me …
a deep excitement in seeing
… yOu …
causing a hurricane of thoughts in
… me …
I’m in wonderment of the essence of
… yOu …
yOu make my heartbeat throb …
… me …
I cause the naughty thoughts in…
… yOu …
yOu make tingles shoot through
… me …
making the private parts on
… yOu …
seek out the intimate parts on
… me …
making the emotions on
… yOu …
grab my face and begin kissing
… me …
while I grab for the hugs from
… yOu …
instead it’s yOu wanting from
… me …
my body pressed up against
… yOu …
clinging to the sOuL of
… me …
that brings out the radiating sOuL of
… yOu …
causing yOu to explode in
… me …
makes me gush all over
… yOu …
trembling – yOu hold
… me …
as tightly as I hold
… yOu …
sleep soon will come to
… me …
my heart will always belong to
… yOu …
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A sOuL cOnneCt is the glue that binds together yOur seX, yOur sOuL and yOur parTnerShip as a whOLe tOgeTher …
My eXcLuSive partnership is prOOf of thiS. This iS the beSt reLationShip I’ve ever had in my entire life and it was definitely worth waiting 52 years for!
Beyond best friends, beyond soulmates and beyond true love is what my guy and I have … my best friend and beyond
BeLOw I deSCribe EXACTLY what it takes to have a suCCeSSful parTnerShip …
Read this very carefully and you BOTH have to be in sync with this or it won’t work …
what it takes to have that RARE and unique sOuL cOnneCtiOn that iS almost unbreakable:
*100% COMPLETE HONESTY with OPEN COMMUNICATION so as to keep your partner informed as to where your head is at. This way there is no room for either of y’all to be guessing what the other is thinking etc… Those TWO things are the FOUNDATION NEEDED to begin and maintain a successful partnership …
I think that so many couples DON’T have that foundation because it wasn’t based on a SOUL CONNECTION. Because I KNOW if it IS based on a SOUL CONNECT it has no other option but to work in making a relationship successful (My own exclusive partnership is proof) … Otherwise without the soul cOnneCt … Couples aren’t striving as a team to build their relationship …
After the CRUCIAL FOUNDATION of HONESTY and COMMUNICATION are laid and SET LIKE CONCRETE – add the mix of YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUPER POWER (sOuL cOnneCt) –
*** this sOuL cOnneCtiOn cannot be forced – if it isn’t already present in your relationship is probably not going to be there if you have to try to make it happen …
… then … you MUST have these ESSENTIAL attributes (in BOTH partners) for it to be SUCCESSFUL:
*100% TRUST (for yourself as well as for each other)
*RESPECT (means that each person values who the other is and understands the other person’s boundaries)
*LOYALTY (to yourself, each other, and to your reLatiOnShip)
*FAITHFULNESS (to each other FOR your reLatiOnShip)
*KEEPING OPEN LINE OF COMMUNICATION (this is mentioned twice because it’s that important)
*LISTENING to each other
*OPENNESS (your as well as your partner is open, undefended and willing to be vulnerable and open in a sexual manner)
*EMOTIONAL SUPPORT for each other
***BE A RIDE OR DIE FOR EACH OTHER it’s crucial to have each other’s back in ANY situation. You have to KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that “your partner has “got you”
*THE MAGIC OF SMALL THINGS
*COMPASSION – The intention and capacity to relieve and transform suffering and lighten sorrows
*EFFORTLESS – it should ALL come naturally
🤔 When ALL ATTRIBUTES ARE ADDED TO YOUR FIRM FOUNDATION OF HONESTY AND OPEN COMMUNICATION meaning they are SET firmly inside you and your partners sOuL (because your sOuL consists of your mind, your will and your emotions)
THAT IS HIGHLIGHTED TOGETHER – it’s completed with the RARE OCCURRENCE of instantaneous bonding of two souls causing a …
~ SOUL CONNECTION ~
😄 … then …
*add the bonus ingredient WHICH CAUSES the most AMAZING sex that you could dare dream of … therefore causing it all to ⚡⚡⚡MAKE THE MOST⚡⚡⚡UNBEATABLE ✌️ 🎶🎶🎶 COMBINATION which creates an …
which makes for a ✌️ 🎶🎶🎶 SUCCESSFUL PARTNERSHIP that would be ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE and EXTREMELY DIFFICULT for anyone outside the relationship to break through … for example someone can’t tempt your partner to cheat as easily because sOuL cOnneCt is almost unbreakable plus with this sOuL cOnneCtiOn you WILL NOT WANT TO OR THINK ABOUT BEING UNFAITHFUL … (Breaking the soulmate connection can be a very difficult process but it can be done if you set your mind, heart and soul to the task. The soulmate connection, and soulmate relationships, are formed from a very deep soul level connection with another human being.)
(These soulmate connections as they are formed and deepen over the time we spend with that soulmate become a part of us and part of our own soul so creating a termination to that bond can be a fairly painful process …
(This soulmate connection as it is formed and deepen over the time that we spend with our soulmate … They become a part of us and part of our own soul so creating a termination to that bond can be a fairly painful process … read more here regarding sOuL tie diScOnneCtiOn … not having a sOuL cOnneCtiOn is how partners can succumb to temptation easily …)
This is what most reLatiOnShipS are miSSing … and the main reason cheating seems like an easy option … It’s not an easy option when your have all these qualities present as discussed here in this post …
My opinion is that most couples in general will NOT have this RARE phenomenal relationship is because they aren’t willing to put forth the extreme effort in maintaining this on a daily basis. They want the outcome of …
… what I’ve described to manifest in their relationship without going out of their comfort zone.
Learning about and VALUING what is important to each other will have the two of you creating your “perfect” world around your relationship.
Being up straight up front about your individual thoughts and feelings, along with the desired direction of the relationship – YOUR AGREEMENT OF THE DESIRED DIRECTION OF YOUR PARTNERSHIP IS CRITICAL – because that way one isn’t trying to change direction … because by NOT changing directions … your partner has the assurance you are respecting the boundaries they placed in front of you … This WILL ALLOW your relationship the freedom it craves to be happy and because your won’t be doubting your partner’s promise of NOT pushing you for something you may not be emotionally ready or able to give (for ex: if one of you has “caught feelings and the other hasn’t – and they do care deeply for you – be respectful and know they are giving you all they can – because IF the partner with feelings pushes for the relationship to be more of a commitment or whatever … that “pushing” will poison what trust is between the both you plus it breaks and tears down the bricks and will ultimately destroy the foundation built – and more than likely end it altogether.
On the other hand if you both keep to whatever agreement decided beforehand … The AMAZING freedom that comes – (freedom from knowing your partner is faithful and cares for you deeply, etc.) will allow you and your partner the opportunity to simultaneously explore yourselves and your relationship because your FIRM SET FOUNDATION AND BRICK STRUCTURE and highlighted with the sOuL cOnneCtiOn frees your relationship to grow as it was meant to be.
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😞 foreword 🤔 the reality that I’m taking about is the reality that although he’s (my best friend and beyond) not here, I know that he will be back soon, even if it’s not as soon as I would like. But the harshness and pain of loneliness is paralyzing at times.
👁️ Simply LoneLy …
… Emptiness inside – born from the pain that hurts every time – I miss you babe …
that loneliness creates …
… an emptiness created from craving the presence of that special one – that is unlike any other.
We connected INSTANTLY from hearing faint whispers, echoing deep within our sOuL.
… IT HURTS WHEN YOU AREN’T HERE …
Angrily, the brute force of feeling lonely stabs – through to my core slicing more painfully, into my pain while causing hot throbbing aches, while masking the clarity – that’s automatically taken from the safe images from our own reality.
My heart can be felt pounding hard beneath my chest. I’m feeling that torment … intense …
in fact …
I am shushed from hearing the mutters, emulating through the warmth, climbing out from my soul, came the truth born from sweet memories that we shared not to long ago.
I’m not comfortable in this zone, although I do know – the torrid jolts from missing you …
… The chill from the lonesome cry of my soul … pierce me … Knocking the breath that clings tightly and thoroughly, as I notice not the strain but rather the strength rising up …
… fierce devotion …
that’s felt distinctly for you …
causing my tears to streak, sliding silently down my face … While focusing on impressions from long ago grace … and as I sit quietly … in my own little world – I remember this and a whole lot more …
I do know this – I know this for sure, since my son finally admitted to loving me more!
I remember …
that I hate … remembering …
… remembering alone …
… thankfully when this all took place – those deep thinking – awareness were deep and within God’s grace!
it’s searching …
for the ONE whose absences fills my heart with unforgiving emptiness, searing sharp pains yet I desperately try to regain some control.
Laughing sadly to myself, I know it hurts – when you yearn for someone’s presence – you miss with all your might …
Will I ever survive, fighting these pains that could certainly break me away?
Away from loneliness, because he told me …
Feeling that way is a waste …
… Then he smiled at me, and made my heart smile – while standing right in front of my face!
The mask covers me trying to hide reality – through the pain created by being lonely … and lonely covers me – with a dark blanket of intimate suffering … from yearning thoughts stemming from my core while craving your presence and so much more!
As I peer through that cloudy mask for a check on myself, it becomes virtually impossible for reality to make it’s way to where my soul can see – that’s the reality of deep loneliness indeed!
I don’t need a lot of people that are fake through the storms of life – the lonesomeness blinds me …
… hiding the truth – away from the harshness that my soul can see ~ I do so ache for REALITY.
Reality means that although you aren’t here – this very time – memories tell me that – the realness is when you get out of a bind and make a trip back, just to be with me here!
Yes, although right now your not physically around, due to work and issues that happen when life is abound …
Yet, once I hear you back up to my place, the excitement bursts from deep within and all the exploding from areas not while the song that’s inside my soul screams …
” … he’s here“
You keep the emptiness and loneliness at bay … They slither to the corner, hissing at me, claiming to be bored and want me to play … Yet your presence clears the way that is free and the way you care keeps …
… ALL THE BAD THINGS AWAY FROM ME …
… Really wanting you close … Remembering your honesty, your loyality and trust – combined with hope …
I SMILE … AS I REMEMBER THOSE DAYS …
knowing soon you’d be pulling up right here in my yard …
and we …
…will remember …
… That I’m remembering … I’m with you … I remember the fact …
… For once I’m not remembering alone …
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I’ve been asked, “How do you know he’s not living a separate life and staying loyal to you”?
“Especially when he’s not around for two weeks, sometimes more, at a time?”
It angers me when someone that doesn’t even know you says to me, “You don’t KNOW for sure he could be talking to others on the phone”, … then leave me dangling.
But I know you aren’t talking nor are you hanging out with other females, because you would tell me if you were.
How do I know ~ I know this because I’ve told you how it would hurt me. I just believe you when you tell me you aren’t. “Your a real man. Am I wrong?”
They call me NAIVE for truly trusting you. That you are doing those things when away from me. I simply cannot picture you doing that because your not a mean or sneaky person. They have no right to categorize you in with all the others.
They don’t understand a real man like you because they are close minded and believe all men are the same as one that hurt them or because they themselves are NOT a real man. I’ve been hurt to, but still I know that’s …
… not true … about you …
I get mad because that type of crap makes my thoughts go crazy and wanna doubt you but I fiercely push them aside.
Holding onto WHAT YOU’VE TOLD ME. “Your a real man. Am I wrong?”
Deep down I DO know that you wouldn’t hurt me or disrespect me in that way. Neither of us have deviated from that the way we discussed it originally and you are a man of your word. “Your a real man. Am I wrong?”
But they say, I’m stupid for believing you. I don’t care because my gut tells me your true to me. “I know your a real man. Am I wrong?”
I would have never believed loyality existed before I met you, that someone could be true, honest and straight up.
Yet, after meeting you, I know your that one in a million and would never stoop that low because you respect me more than that plus, I know for you its also a matter of inner character …
… Because your a REAL man, and to kind-hearted to hurt and I would already know if you weren’t,
by your eyes, because that’s something you cannot hide. A real man that is because A REAL man, has a heart.
They can say whatever they want but I know “Your a real man. Am I wrong?”
“Thank you for being A REAL MAN”!
This was written in honor of my bfwb!
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To scared to pray
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The tears are not going to stop, they are running down my face.
My soul cringes,
knowing the tears will make the thoughts come alive.
Forever searching inside,
grabbing myself from deep inside
trying to hold it back
The need for reassurance is there
I must share my head with you,
it’s a must, guessing is not an option
Understand that it hurts
when you flippantly tell me that it’s none of my business…
try to “see” where I’m coming from,
Put your head where mine rests… Being afraid that one day you will say…
I’m hanging out with a new friend.
Crushed beyond reason is what I’d be
If that were to happen.
That’s why all you have to do is tell me
where your head is, because guessing is dangerous for me.
I need your honesty, not your anger,
Your acceptance, not your mean words….
Your understanding, not your condemnation.
Your reassurance, not your rude comebacks…
Because those are so unlike you… You are defensive for no reason,
Haven’t I earned
That much respect, and
haven’t I been true in our best friendship thus far?
It’s not you reporting, it’s simply YOU being kind to the one who is kind to you.
Reassurance would stop it all…
Please don’t keep it from me….
It’s not me trying to control you, it is YOU being
considerate of your bfwb…
that needs to be told, gently, that
No one is taking her place.
Reassurance would stop it all…
Dead in their tracks.
I don’t get why you won’t do that
just to help,
To make it easier…
Especially bc I’m trying very hard
To continue to trust.
Don’t make me pay with tears
because you know how much I care.
My heart is pretty fragile
but you think it’s made of steel…
It’s hard when negative
To continue to trust …. while reassurance would
Be so welcomed for needed peace,
Inside my heart.
What would it really hurt?
To tell me what’s up?
If you know how I mean it…
It’s for reassuring comfort, deep down inside me.
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Where does the love go
A real man
Tears falling down
The imprint of you on my heart
To scared to pray
💕 I believe that the naughtier the couple, the closer the bond, in an erotic and soulful and sensual way that’s unlike any other.
This type of bond is very hard to break. That coupled with two people that have a basic solid foundation (meaning: honesty, 100% trust, being trustworthy, loyal, being faithful and showing respect) and tripled with the fact that they also practice these attributes in their every day relationship, make your relationship and sex an UNBEATABLE COMBINATION!
I’ve proven all these different techniques are true in my own life!
Here are 13 proven ways to improve your relationship by getting naughty with your partner:
1) HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION: They let the other one know EXACTLY where their head is at! (Where you will discuss anything between yourselves so you both know what’s up with each other).
(By doing this, it will stop a lot of wondering about things like: “do they love me”, “are they cheating”, etc….?)
It will also stop a lot of accusations and so forth …
It just simply helps both to feel free enough to have complete trust for each other.
That trust is a major part of your foundation, as well as communication being yet another.
2) TALKING DIRTY: Communication is especially important and essential during your sexual encounters. Naughty talk is a huge turn on, for men and women alike. Embarrassed to talk dirty to your partner? Don’t be.
Isn’t it better to TRY naughty and dirty talking in hopes of enjoying it and bringing your relationship closer and be more intimate as a couple, or do you want to just stay as you are right now sexually?
Don’t you like it when your significant other talks naughty to you? I know I love it!
Just try it because you just may just like it and find it completely and totally arousing!
3) NAUGHTY SEXTING: dirty and naughty sexting is a huge turn on. Ladies send your partner a pic of your boobs or a sexy pic of all of you. Men love that and would welcome it during a hard day at work. Jus sayin’!
Men, sext to your partner all the things you want to do to them the next time you see them. Don’t send dick pics unless requested. Words flatter us, but back those words up!
4) USE TOOLS: The Bad Girls Bible (link below) can also be used as a tool during foreplay 💕 Find something you would like to try, for example: a sensual, erotic and slow all over full body massage, etc.
Click this link to see all the awesome sexual things you can try together.
5) USE PROPS: Make it fun, sexy, erotic and tantalizing for each other. Add candles by placing them around the room, have some baby oil or massage oil on hand to rub your partner down during that erotic and sensual massage, or use your imagination.
6) GIVE SENSUAL MASSAGE AS FOREPLAY: Ladies and gentlemen, start with the back and legs, work your way slowly all the way around to his front. They will already be squirming, so titillate them, tease and play with them, drive them to their knees (so to speak). I love it when I make my guy moan. It’s so incredibly seXy and makes me crazy with desire. It also makes me want to search for different ways to make him cry out in that seXy way again. Am I right people?
It’s VERY hot ✌️
7) FOOD FUN DURING FOREPLAY: Serve some finger fruits such as: strawberries or grapes. Add whip cream as a fun dip (you can surely have A LOT of fun with this!!!) and take turns feeding each other.
This can get STEAMY very quick!
Ladies, then get messy with it and smear it all over his private area and slowly lick it off him, one section at a time, teasing him relentlessly! Bring your partner to the brink of climax and stop ~ it will make it bigger and better when they finally do climax!
Men, you can also spread it all around your partner’s private area and lick it off so they will be squirming and begging for more …..
💕fyi: See, by this time he (or she) is so turned on, they grab you and ravage you hopelessly! That is what makes you sexually melt and fully give yourself to your lover!
I know it makes me literally melt and I’m like a rag doll, having one orgasm after another without even trying.
8) SET THE TONE: Have some sexy music playing. Personally, the slow and sexy hip hop songs make the mood sexy, but choose whatever type of music that’s going to enhance YOUR sexual mood.
💕fyi: In all my discussions with a variety of people about this subject, not one person claimed to have listened to heavy metal, classic rock or even country during hot and naughty sex.
Those generes of music are not usually synonymous with feeling sexy or naughty. I happen to agree with that. So find something with a slow but seXy beat that makes the passion burn inside you. It will deeply enhance the spicy tone, already floating in the air.
9) SPEAK UP DURING SEX: (This is mostly for the LADIES) Men love it when their partner tells them exactly what they want from him during sex. This turns men on BIG-TIME! It really gets their primal juices flowing in anticipation knowing what is going to happen!
💕fyi: When a partner is enjoying what they are doing, that is a MAJOR turn on to the receiver.
Try it, don’t be shy! Your man is going to have YOU on his mind a lot after this! Isn’t that reason enough to try this and other things?
10) ORAL SEX: Men also NEED for their women to give EXCELLENT blow jobs …. “Just do to it what you would want done to yours, if you had one.” That’s what I do and most definitely swallow. A blow job without the swallowing is not a good blow job. It is lacking something from a man’s viewpoint.
Ladies, I know that you don’t want your man to think of you and have the picture of unfulfilled sex in his mind.
No, you want him to think of the EXCELLENT blow job you gave him the night before or the sexy foreplay ideas you tried on him to make his toes curl! You want him to think sexually positive when it comes to you. So, do your best with the swallowing. My guy tastes like cotton candy, and I love it!
💕fyi: If you don’t enjoy giving your man a blow job or you refuse altogether, there’s a good chance he could go looking for that naughty fix from someone else’s mouth. I’m just being real here and that may be a RAW sensitive statement but it’s true. Most men WILL get that taken care of one way or the other. So, wouldn’t you want it to be from you?
💕fyi: don’t give a boring blow job by just going up and down, no, lick him all around on his testicles and he will love it! Swirling your tongue around on his penis is much more of a turn on.
So, if you want to keep your man wanting YOU and thinking of YOU sexually ….. Put your mouth to work!
💕fyi: Make the initial bj last for at least 3-5 minutes before you take a breather. If you are using all your mouth muscles, you should have tired jaws at this point. (If your giving it your all)
Then after a couple minutes (while you are stroking him to keep him interested while your gathering your momentum) keep it up for another 3-4 five minute rounds, this will be winding him up and getting him ever so HOT in the process.
Men, give your partner oral sex, don’t just expect them to give it to you. Make her CRAZY and let her “cum” to new heights because of your skills. She will always have you on her mind if you do this consistently!
11) LADIES wear revealing clothes, (no matter what your size.) When something makes you “feel” sexy, it will scream “sexy”outwardly! Men love sexy outfits and you don’t have to spend a lot of money. Rip some of your old t shirts and make them sexy.✌️They love this and it also gives you guys extra sexual communication time, as well as help your verbal skills in the naughty department! (If they have been lacking in that crucial area)
There are to many couples that just do not talk to each other.
How can you expect sex to be HOT if you can’t even talk to each other? Come on y’all! It may take work but it’s FUN WORK!
12) EXTRA HELP: If you would like to add even more spice, bring something to calm you and release your inhibitions.
Go ahead and pour yourselves some of your favorite drink or maybe a little 4:20 is what you prefer, to calm and settle you into the beyond seXy moment. Allow yourselves to just “chiLLax” and play!
13) EROTIC THINGS YOU CAN DO TOGETHER: A lot of men, ladies too, enjoy mutual masterbation. This is one way to heat things up real fast! It’s a really huge turn on for both parties. Don’t be shy, let your drink or your roll chill you out, while you get your dildo and then show him how good you can work it on yourself. It’s guaranteed that the men will like this one. Ladies, watch him stroke his while you are doing this. THIS IS A HUGE TURN ON!
💕fyi: You can also record yourselves doing this. You can tantalize and tease your partner by shooting them a copy during their work day. They won’t be the same after you do this.
The list is actually endless with the things you can try. The Bad Girls Bible site will have some sexual activity that catches your eye, just you wait and see!
Have a blast together!!!
You will have your partner addicted TO YOU if you keep these proven suggestions up steadily for any given amount of time.
I challenge you to try these tips, or any others you may learn about for one month, on an unremitting basis.
Try spacing all of the above activities out (at different times throughout that month) and I promise, you will see the difference in your sexual relationship!
You will feel closer and bonded in a way that you never have before.
Not to mention, it will bring you that much closer in the emotional part of your relationship. It’s a win-win situation!
(LADIES & GENTLEMAN ……..Are you up for this challenge?)
Only when sex and soul “cum” together and happens will your (and your partner’s) “beast” be unleashed and unbridled!
Practicing these tips consistently will bring your sex and soul together!
It may take a while for this to occur, however, do not rush it. That will ruin everything. It will NEVER happen if you rush. Just simply ENJOY YOUR JOURNEY 💕 to those sexual heights and where your partner is taking you.
Let me know how your first encounter goes!!!
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