Here is a story about one of my many surfs through quora.com. I like helping people who I look for issues I’m qualified (from life experiences) to address.
My RAW thoughts today are about cheating. As I coasted through quora.com earlier, I answered a couple questions about cheating so I thought I would see what your RAW thoughts were about this sensitive yet emotionally harmful subject well as share myself RAW thoughts with you!
Cheating confirms that pure love does not exist in the mind or heart of its enforcer.
Sorry but I’m just being for real.
This revelation has burst open me from the inside out of my core on one thing God has intended me to learn from this difficult road i allowed life to put me on.
⭐The lesson here is too be genuine and respectful worth your partner. Leave before you cheat, try watering your own grass at home and keep it rich and happy. “My partner doesn’t give me what I need sexually” is the most common reason for cheating. Well you know what? What you do is make him/her naughty and felt intriguing by you. There are plenty of sites for tools that will do just that. Try http://www.badgirlsbible.com for tips from AMAZING foreplay, massages, blow jobs, what excites men and women, ideas for hotter sex.
If this doesn’t work then I suggest you get out of the relationship.
You should not have to “try” anyway, because I feel that if it is true love, then it will come naturally. It’s just that simple!
Knowing what true love really makes you feel inside it is no longer a mystery to me. It’s a reality that God blessed me with to take me higher on the journey yet to be.
If you were ever in TRUE LOVE with someone would you be able to bring yourself too cheat on them? Honesty please. Why? Because it is too serious to play games with someone’s heart.
I feel that only people that have experienced pure true love can really answer but i welcome all answers from everyone. If you have you think about whether or not you have experienced this rare feeling then chances are no, you have not. Your probably experiencing lust. That won’t last and you will get hurt, promise.
I have been blessed enough to have experienced true love in my young golden years. The knowledge of what I found was mind blowing because the love in is pure form is so beyond the love we know.
❤️ It was worth the wait believe me. My answer is a definite NO I could NEVER BRING myself to cheat on someone that has brought out the pure love in me, sexually and otherwise..
How do I know, well explanations are futile but it’s because I just know.
💜 I also know I never experienced it in the past years until I was in my sweet fifties. That was clear to me in retrospect of this AMAZING journey.
I wasn’t even looking for an exclusive partner when I was found by him. I was too far gone in my own meager existence, weighed down by my bad choices in life.
Experiencing my own karma and rightly so. It’s important to own your wrongs and learn from them what you were created to learn.
With him just being himself, he made me realize my worth because I was too whipped by life in exhaustion to see it on my own. I mattered and I needed to know that. I mattered. How could I matter because I was a worthless person in my own eyes and I’m sure others as well. Wasn’t that obvious in my bad decisions I made? Or was I just going crazy?
I was about to see why.
I believed in the magic of love as a young girl but how miraculous was it that it was live and up close and personal with me in real life.
This is the way it was intended too be. If people realized this in it’s depth, they would not play games in it’s name. Wow ⭐
The grass is NEVER GREENER than your own lawn that you keep fertilized and watered. Remember that!
True love CANNOT cheat! It has so much more of a deeper meaning than anyone can comprehend.
What are YOUR RAW THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS?
***sometimes the problem with agreeing to this would be to admit that you were wrong all the times before in your desperate tries of “love” in your past. They seem childish in comparison since you now see clarity. Some are too weak minded to deal with that reality.
This person may be intended to be my forever BFWB or he may not but what the lesson here was: True love DOES exist in it’s purest form if you open yourself up to experience it.
Now I can stand on my own a bit more than I could before. It’s crazy of how fragile I was when he met me. He had been so patient through it all, I’m very blessed.
He had remolded me back to a state that I felt whole again. Life had shredded me into millions of pieces, strong yet so vulnerable. But I mattered enough to put those pieces back together.
I didn’t know that I mattered before that day.
❤️ That is true love ❤️